The top warning signs? Possession of homosexual pornography and evidence of visits to homosexual porn websites. (You would not think a lot of men, confronted with a log of their hours spent on, succeed in convincing their wives that this is a common, heterosexual male way to spend an afternoon, but apparently they do.) There aren't as many websites for men left by gay wives. Perhaps they aren't as ready to share their hurt. Whatever the reason, it's certainly not because it's not happening.īut why should we have such illusions about marriage anyway? There are many things spouses choose to keep secret, and homosexuality is just one of them.
No man says: I do, mostly because your money will allow me to become a successful businessman. No woman says: I want to have children soon and I am too conventional/cautious/career-oriented to do it by myself. Weekly sex will be OK, as long as passion is not required. There are three powerful bonds between people and, for better and for worse, they often operate separately, rather than together: sexual attraction, long-term attachment and romantic yearning. Sexual attraction can bring together two people who have almost nothing in common except what takes place between the sheets see most young marriages.
